My boyfriend continues to lie to me about his former girlfriend.?

wow i don't know how you've put up with this for so long! this guy has been dishonest about seeing another woman, and dishonest about keeping his promise to you. he's disrespectful of your wishes; if he wanted to change, he could have and should have a long time ago. i'm sorry to say, but his old girlfriend just seems more important to him than you. the fact that she has so much power over him is weird, and the fact that he's hurting you and doesn't care is a major red flag. leave him. he's no good.